Top San Diego Dining Destinations for LGBT Visitors

Indigo Grill Bar

A booming culinary scene awaits visitors to San Diego, with many of its restaurants headed by chefs and entrepreneurs from within the LGBT community. Add to the equation a host of other dining hotspots that regularly support LGBT events and fundraisers, and the result is a tapestry of endless options that capture everything from the latest and greatest farm-sourced meals to hearty casual chow and innovative haute cuisine.

Indigo Grill

Indigo Grill Bar

The new makeover at Indigo Grill. Courtesy of Indigo Grill

Veteran chef-restaurateur Deborah Scott wows with dishes inspired by native-American and Latin cooking techniques. Since its sleek remodel recently, Scott has extended the menu’s global reach while maintaining her popular standbys such as Indian corn pudding and achiote flat-iron steak with chimichurri.

Where: 1536 India St. San Diego, CA 92101
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The Red Door/Wellington Steak & Martini Lounge

Red Door in Mission Hills

The quaint and inviting Red Door in Mission Hills

Amid a mini restaurant row that has emerged in the quiet neighborhood of Mission Hills, visitors will find some of the coziest farm-to-table meals at The Red Door. Sharing the same kitchen is the adjacent Wellington Steak & Martini Lounge, which brings classic beef Wellington back into vogue.

Where: 741 and 729 W. Washington St., San Diego, CA 92103
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The Patio on Goldfinch

Cheese at The Patio on Goldfinch

Artisan curds wink from the “cheese cave” at The Patio on Goldfinch

Also in Mission Hills, along a quaint block of Goldfinch Street, is the new Patio on Goldfinch, a former TV repair shop that underwent a dazzling, eco-conscious redo complete with living walls and an eye-popping “cheese cave.” The menu focuses on sharable plates that are both savory and detailed. The restaurant and its front patio fill up quickly on most days, so reservations are recommended.

Where: 4020 Goldfinch St., San Diego, CA 92103
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Hillcrest Brewing Company

HIllcrest Brewing Company

Steve’s Garden pizza at Hillcrest Brewing Company. Courtesy of Mo’s Universe

Considered the nation’s only LGBT-owned brewing company, this casual hangout greets with provocatively named beers and pizzas. With nearly a dozen signature brews in the offing such as “Pearl Necklace” and “Banana Hammock” and a menu extending also to salads and wings, the atmosphere is consistently as festive as the brewery’s nearby sister restaurants, which include Baja Betty’s, The Gossip Grill and Urban Mo’s Bar & Grill.

Where: 1458 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103
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La Bonne Table

La Bonne Table

Seasonal fruit tart at the cozy La Bonne Table. Courtesy of La Bonne Table

LGBT couples seeking a romantic dinner experience in Hillcrest should look no further than this elegant, cozy French newcomer to the restaurant scene, which knocks out some of the best bouillabaisse and duck confit in the gayborhood. With limited seating in both the dining room and outdoor patio, a feeling of exclusivity pervades.

Where: 3696 Fifth Ave., San Diego, CA 92103
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D Bar

D Bar Cake and Shake

The wildly popular “cake and shake” at D Bar. Courtesy of D Bar

Headed by pastry maestro and Food Network personality Keegan Gerhard, patrons witness fabulous desserts in the making when perched at the roomy dining bar. On the opposite wall is a fully stocked liquor bar with table seating available throughout the center of the bright, airy interior. The menu includes well-crafted savory dishes, but it’s the sour cream chocolate cake and “faux foster banana imposter” that keep some of us coming back regularly.

Where: 3930 Fifth Ave., San Diego, CA 92103
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High glitz awaits at Lips Restaurant. Courtesy of Lips

Glitter and glam set the stage at Lips, a drag supper club located in San Diego’s “other Hillcrest” – in the neighborhood of North Park. The outstanding performers double as servers as they deliver a full slate of grilled specialties to your table with rousing doses of song and humor. Special late-night “taboo” shows are added to the schedule on Saturdays.

Where: 3036 El Cajon Blvd., San Diego, CA 92104
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The Smoking Goat

The Smoking Goat Duck Fat Fries

Truffle fries cooked in duck fat at The Smoking Goat

Also in North Park is the sure-footed Smoking Goat, where duck-fat truffle fries and slow-cooked pork belly are all the rage. The menu highlights well-executed meat and seafood entrees, some which are stamped with French flair. Situated in a double storefront, the restaurant flaunts a stylish, earthy interior and features a sizable front patio.

Where: 3408 30th St., San Diego, CA 92104
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Lei Lounge

Lei Lounge

Colorful high-tech mood lighting adds a soothing touch to Lei Lounge. Courtesy of Lei Lounge

In the village center of University Heights, where the popular Bourbon Street Bar & Grill resides, visitors can enter into Lei Lounge’s light-splashed canopied patio for island-inspired small plates and titillating cocktails such as aloe vera Collins and basil-pineapple martinis.

Where: 4266 Park Blvd. San Diego, CA 92116
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The Marine Room

The Marine Room in La Jolla

Every table comes with an ocean view at The Marine Room

Among the highly reputable fine-dining restaurants in San Diego is The Marine Room, established in 1941 and located on the sands of La Jolla Shores. The food is exquisite and the view captures a good deal of drama during high tides and winter storms as ocean waves lap against the restaurant’s large, reinforced windows.

Where: 2000 Spindrift Drive, La Jolla, CA 92037
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Bertrand at Mister A’s

Bertrand's at Mister A's Patio

Bertrand at Mister A’s ranks as San Diego’s best penthouse restaurant. Courtesy of Bertrand at Mister A’s

Formality rules the day in this penthouse perch near Balboa Park, affording diners exquisite views of the bay and San Diego skyline. It’s one of the few restaurants in town that maintains a dress code, so leave your cargo shorts and sandals behind when arriving for such delights as Maine lobster strudel and rack of lamb.

Where: 2550 Fifth Ave., San Diego, CA 92103
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Buona Forchetta

Buona Forchetta Anchovy Salad

The white anchovy salad at Buona Forchetta is a must-try starter

One of the most common dining questions visitors ask is, “What’s the best Italian restaurant in San Diego?” My answer: “There are many.” Reigning among the hottest lately is Buona Forchetta, which operates in a mostly residential section of South Park. The kitchen cranks out classic Neapolitan pizzas from a high-inferno oven as well as other authentic Italian fare that transcends spaghetti and meatballs.

Where: 3001 Beech St., San Diego, CA 92102
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Fish Public and Bleu Boheme

Bleu Boheme

Going French in Kensington

If venturing into the Uptown neighborhood of Kensington, perhaps before catching an independent film at Landmark’s Ken Cinema, the rustic ambiance of Bleu Boheme is your ticket to Paris’ Left Bank with its classic and outstanding French cuisine. Although if you favor oysters and whole-roasted fish over beef bourguignon, Fish Public dishes up an array of oceanic gems with panache.

Where: 4090 Adams Ave. and 4055 Adams Ave., respectively, San Diego, CA 92116
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Café 21

Cafe 21 Grilled Pear Salad

Grilled pear salad at Café 21. Courtesy of Café 21

With locations in Normal Heights and the Gaslamp Quarter, both kitchens serve extraordinary meals inspired partly by the owners’ Azerbaijani roots. The seasonally driven menus change frequently, although dishes such as kebab platters, apricot-braised lamb shanks and hand-made crepes filled with savory ingredients are among the dependably delicious standbys.

– 2736 Adams Ave., San Diego, CA 92116
– 802 Fifth Ave., San Diego, CA 92101
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